I have always believed that people respond more to prejudice, less to logic and even lesser to context. People listen to a word or sentence and form a view about it and don't even take time to let the context sink in. Comment on my last post had me believe even more firmly about it. It seems like everyone thought that I am whining or lamenting or crying over what has been. I am many things but I am definitely not a cry baby. Context of the post was not to be sorry about the past. I very firmly believe that there is nothing, and I mean nothing, that can not be talked about. If I have something on my mind, I don't mind (pun unintended) talking about it.
Its not just about people connected to this blog that I am talking about. I know a lot many people who won't even let you complete before passing on their judgement; and I sometime wonder that if they have listened to anyone at all in all their life. I see people who cling to smallest mistake of someone else but very conveniently cover up their own. I don't say that they are not right at times, but to think that they are the only ones right is the height of prejudice. Of course it is prejudice to think that other one is wrong without attaching any logic or context to the whole episode. Back in days, I was repeatedly told to look at the big picture. Who does it now?
Its not just about people connected to this blog that I am talking about. I know a lot many people who won't even let you complete before passing on their judgement; and I sometime wonder that if they have listened to anyone at all in all their life. I see people who cling to smallest mistake of someone else but very conveniently cover up their own. I don't say that they are not right at times, but to think that they are the only ones right is the height of prejudice. Of course it is prejudice to think that other one is wrong without attaching any logic or context to the whole episode. Back in days, I was repeatedly told to look at the big picture. Who does it now?
Dude....even u r doing the same thing....let the context sink into ur own brain first....and answer to ur question why is everyone talkin abt the love life only ....thats coz u've written abt it and that was the highlight of the blog.....i will agree with JASSI on this one....MOVE THE FUCK ON.....if u want to remember everything ...put a STICKY NOTE on and move ahead so that whenever u want to remember her, u can....dont carry this with u ....leaving it behind is for ur own gud and for everyone else related to the matter. And gussa ghat kareya kar....PEACE
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